R. W. Holder, "How Not To Say What You Mean: A Dictionary of Euphemisms (3rd Edition)"

We often use euphemisms when dealing with taboo or sensitive subjects. We speak of "full-figured" women. We "fudge" on our income tax. We get "cold feet" before our wedding. In How Not to Say What You Mean, R.W. Holder offers an engaging volume that celebrates this human tendency to use mild, vague, or roundabout expressions rather than those which are blunt, precise, and true. Arranged in alphabetical order, this dictionary contains thousands of entertaining and informative entries ranging from such circumlocutions as a "fruit salad" (mixture of illegal narcotics), "arm candy" (a good-looking female companion), a "barrel-house" (a brothel), "birthday suit" (nakedness), and a "blue hair" (an old women).

Completely updated, the dictionary provides definitions, examples, as well as historical explanations where appropriate. Fun, fascinating, lively, and at times shocking, this new edition of How Not to Say What You Mean is a browser's delight and will appeal to all language and word play lovers, and anyone looking for a good laugh.

From the Back Cover
How Not To Say What You Mean unmasks the language of hypocrisy, evasion, prudery, and deceit. This hugely entertaining collection highlights our tendency to use mild, vague, or roundabout expressions in preference to words that are precise, blunt, and often uncomfortably accurate.

Entries, drawn from all aspects of life: work, sexuality, age, money, and politics, provide the real meaning for well-known phrases such as above your ceiling, gardening leave, rest and recreation, count the daisies, God's waiting room, washed up, and fact-finding mission.

From the Inside Flap
From its first appearance in 1987 as A Dictionary of American and British Euphemisms, Bob Holder's work has been the standard reference book tor those studying the language of evasion and understatement. This new edition, renamed How Not To Say What You Mean, has been completely rewritten. It retains old favourites while adding over a thousand new entries, which reflect modern euphemistic terms on such issues as marriage, race, homosexuality, drug-taking, and security of employment.

The quotations which accompany entries are both illustrative and interesting in their own right. Where appropriate, the etymology of a term is explained, giving a philological insight into this universally used, but little studied, branch of our language.

From Publishers Weekly
Delightful, quirky and exhaustive, Holder's dictionary of American and British circumlocutions is the kind of reference work that one can spend hours browsing through happily. This third edition includes thousands of alphabetized entries for both old-fashioned and contemporary terms. The term "uncover nakedness," for example, used be a standard Biblical translation for "copulate," though many people wouldn't recognize that use today. (Incidentally, "to line" also meant to copulate, and Holder cites part of Shakespeare's As You Like It as an example of such use: "Winter garments must be lined/So must slender Rosaline.") "Deep six," "underprivileged" and "rip off" still enjoy healthy use, and in Ireland "scuttered" still means "drunk." For Holder, however, this project is about more than just having fun with word games. In fine Orwellian spirit, Holder writes in his introduction that euphemism is "the language of evasion, of hypocrisy, of prudery, and of deceit," which makes it all the more important to be able to see through the embroidery.

Contents

An Explanation
Bibliography
A Dictionary of Euphemisms
Thematic Index
 Abortion and Miscarriage
 Age
 Aircraft
 Animals
 Auctions and Real Estate
 Bankruptcy and Indebtedness
 Bawds and Pimps
 Boasting and Flattery
 Breasts
 Bribery
 Brothels
 Charity
 Cheating
 Childbirth and Pregnancy
 Clothing
 Commerce, Banking, and Industry
 Contraception
 Copulation
 Cosmetics
 Courtship and Marriage
 Cowardice
 Crime (other than Stealing)
 Cuckoldry
 Death
 Defecation
 Dismisssal
 Drunkenness
 Education
 Employment
 Entertainment
 Erections and Orgasms
 Espionage
 Extortion and Violence
 Farting
 Female Genitalia
 Funerals
 Gambling
 Illegitimacy and Parentage
 Illness and Injury
 Intoxicants
 Killing and Suicide
 Lavatories
 Low Intelligence
 Lying
 Male Genitalia
 Masturbation
 Menstruation
 Mental illness
 Mistresses and Lovers
 Nakedness
 Narcotics
 Obesity
 Parts of the Body (other than genitalia and breasts)
 Police
 Politics
 Pornography
 Poverty and Parsimony
 Pregnancy
 Prison
 Prostitution
 Race
 Religion and Superstition
 Sexual Pursuit
 Sexual Variations
 Stealing
 Sweat
 Urination
 Venereal Disease
 Vulgarisms
 Warfare
 Unclassified Entries

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