How To Attract A Woman: How To Decode Female Behaviour, Pass Woman's Test, And Attract Woman Through Authenticity

If a woman storms off after an argument and she’s expecting you to chase behind her, you can be sure it’s a test. If she playfully teases you to evoke a sexual response from you (poking the bear) you know she’s testing you.

While these types of tests are easy to figure out, other types of female testing may not be so obvious. This is especially the case if the test comes in the form of a request. And it can get really confusing, especially if you never realized that you were being tested on a regular basis.

You could always solve this by thinking that any request she makes of you is a test, but that sort of thinking isn’t conducive to maintaining a happy and harmonious adult relationship. Living in fear of being manipulated will make you paranoid. It keeps you on the defensive and makes it ridiculously difficult for you to enjoy a loving relationship with any woman. So instead of thinking that every time she asks you to do something she’s testing you, it’s better to cue in on your woman’s tone and the underlying motive she has when she makes a request.
I always encourage guys to reward good behavior with good behavior. If your woman makes a reasonable request of you in a reasonable tone, the last thing you want to do is respond harshly. Don’t give her any incentive to treat you like an inconsiderate brute.

Her request is sincere and necessary but her tone is disrespectful. For example, “Honey, get off your lazy behind and get me the flour NOW.” Do not comply with nagging or any kind of cantankerous behavior. Firmly tell her that you’ll address her needs when she changes her tone to a more reasonable one.

You’ll recognize them because whatever she’s asking for seems so unreasonable, but she asks in a very pleasant, attractive tone just to appease your ego. It’s usually something that would cost you so much of your time, money, standards, etc., that it makes you undeniably uncomfortable.
For example, “Honey, I was thinking we should buy a better car. The business is doing really well, and we can afford it. What do you think?” A smart woman might even apply some logic to her request, but when you observe the underlying motive you’ll realize what’s going on. The truth is you don’t need a second car and even though you can afford it’s still not a part of your financial plans for the year.

How do you handle it? You can discuss it like an adult and help her realize that you really don’t need a second car right now. You can even take it a step further and give a cocky response complete with a sly grin, “Well, keep thinking about it.” Whatever you do though, do not comply. She’s being downright manipulative, whether she realizes it or not.