Embracing Who You Are: The New Way To Self-Acceptance, Fearless Leaving And Freedom From Perfectionism

It’s not surprising that people cannot understand the concept of self-love. They see this as egoist or perhaps selfish. We are taught from childhood to think of others and sometimes we give ourselves much less attention than we need to as a consequence. In fact, there are those who depend upon others to such an extent that they appear to be needy. They believe that their happiness lies in the love and approval they can glean from others. When things go wrong, it shakes their confidence levels and they question the validity of their own existence. It’s no wonder that people put self-love to one side in favor or believing themselves to be unworthy of love. That’s where mistakes begin.

This book will help you to see how 30 days can make the world of difference to the persona that you present to the world. You need to get up close and personal with who you are and this 30 days of self-examination and change can serve to improve your life long term because self-love is essential if you really want to get the best out of life. Let’s face it, if you are not the best person you can be on your own, how do you expect being in a couple to change that? If you are complete as a person, what you have on offer to a potential partner and friends is a person who knows his/her own value and has learned that the world does not revolve upon what others think.

You are better able to improve your lifestyle and drop the negativity from your life because self-love means self-care and presenting yourself to the world as an individual who is complete, rather than depending on others to fill in the blanks. I was once asked by a lady whose husband had left her “How can I be worth loving if the person who loved me dumped me?" Well, I replied to her that everything happens in your life for a reason and she had not yet discovered what that reason was. However, when she discovered what self-love does, she lost her sense of grief for the relationship, her self-esteem levels increased and she became the person she was always intended to be – an independent and happy woman.

She followed the 30 day program and discovered she not only liked who she was, she stopped looking for someone else to approve of who she was. Thus, love came looking for her. For whatever reason you find yourself disliking the person you are, this book will help you to get everything into perspective and help you to start enjoying your life. You deserve it. Today is the beginning of a new you. Celebrate it within a month and stop needing the approval and love of others. When you do, life improves beyond measure.